Advice from lyric of an old song.

An old song that I love, most of the time during then, I dont understand the meaning of the song since I was too young to really know what it means.

After all this year, I realize that the song lyric had gave some good advice on life. Today, I realize that no matter what happen in your life, it just a path, a story that you live in....

I try to simple the lyric for easy understanding as it is originally a Chinese song..

Towards life, you don’t need to be doubtful.   Life, on it own, is originally be expected to be like a movie.  Ending of the story, is it sad or is it unhappy, you, yourself will be the final decision to it.

Looking at dawn, it raise with Hope.  Footprints of the day have no waiting, till the stars and moon enter your dream, life would become more beautiful. 

In work, how much unfairness came across, let’s make use of tomorrow to forget about it. In the journey, there’s always a lot of unjustified came upon, turn to bits and pieces, let them be forgotten in your memories.

I cannot forget the lost that happen in my past, but I need to face myself. In Future, how should I go upon and replace, I will fight for it everywhere.

In the moonlight, buried away the emotion, It make people lost in the chapter of their movie. Brew a cup of coffee, quiet down your busy path and let me tell you my story.

From this song, i understand that no matter what happen to you in your life, it is you who decide if it has been a sad or happy ending. After years has passed, it is like a movie that needs to have ups and downs. or it would not be called a life.

Be your own judge if you have live a full life with pits and falls. or a quiet smooth life that no one would want to know about?

Relationship

The start of a relationship is full of wonders, every moments shared is beautiful and every thoughts of your lover make life so sweet. Cherish every moments and experience together looking forward each day for a greater time tomorrow. But have a clear mind once a while and ensure that you are not being fooled by your own thoughts, over expect what the future would bring and destroy your moments. Enjoy every moments in the present and be sure that the lover is the one. You know you are both going somewhere together when you can say anything without care comfortably and knowing that you won't be offending the other.

Many times we are fools by our desired and passion that have make believe things that are not, this jeopardize our relationship and putting pressure on our lover. And in the end, suffer the consequences of ending a good relation. Tell what you feel and not pretend to love everything that he/she love as in the end it would cause hurt and distrust. If you are not suitable for one other, have a good chat, maybe you can compromise to make it work. Give it time and thoughts, if it don't work out, it's better to split then worn both of you further. One side will need to be sensible to make it right. A lot of people stuck together for too long and even though there's been being lots of unhappiness they still end up with each other. They are so used to one other that they don't want to leave,  sometimes couples like this argued and grow old together. Some unlucky one don't, they usually end up splitting. while the unfortunate one, force themselves to stay together even after knowing the other party having an affair.  

It would be easier when both have similar passion like hobbies, lifestyle, background and culture. Otherwise, it would be a great challenge but we have heard a lot of great successful stories of couples living till old age from different religion and races. One can never imagine how much love and compromise that they need to go through to make it work. I empathy those who are married by matchmaking and had suffered. While I also honour the fact that people I know grow to be in love till the end. Understanding, compromise and forgiveness comes along with your initial passionate love to keep it going and staying together. 

May all relations comes out fruitful. May those that yet to have a relationship, find a great someone tomorrow.

Thoughts after watching....Walter Mitty

Life is full of mystery and secret that need us to understand and discover. We may be lost, down and miserable, but it is through these paths that we learn and shape what we are today to face challenges for tomorrow. Giving up may not be a choice than maybe take a step back and take a break. Clear your mind, then pick yourself up and be ready to fight your best what comes your way. Sometime when the brain is at rest it would help to find you a solution or idea.

If you are at dead end and needed help, why not talk to a friend? And when they can offered help, great. If they may not be able to help, it's ok, telling someone of what you feel may make everything seems differently and no longer a big deal. We only have this lifetime to do what's right and fight for. Why not do it whatever you have, all the way till you die of old age.