Relationship

The start of a relationship is full of wonders, every moments shared is beautiful and every thoughts of your lover make life so sweet. Cherish every moments and experience together looking forward each day for a greater time tomorrow. But have a clear mind once a while and ensure that you are not being fooled by your own thoughts, over expect what the future would bring and destroy your moments. Enjoy every moments in the present and be sure that the lover is the one. You know you are both going somewhere together when you can say anything without care comfortably and knowing that you won't be offending the other.

Many times we are fools by our desired and passion that have make believe things that are not, this jeopardize our relationship and putting pressure on our lover. And in the end, suffer the consequences of ending a good relation. Tell what you feel and not pretend to love everything that he/she love as in the end it would cause hurt and distrust. If you are not suitable for one other, have a good chat, maybe you can compromise to make it work. Give it time and thoughts, if it don't work out, it's better to split then worn both of you further. One side will need to be sensible to make it right. A lot of people stuck together for too long and even though there's been being lots of unhappiness they still end up with each other. They are so used to one other that they don't want to leave,  sometimes couples like this argued and grow old together. Some unlucky one don't, they usually end up splitting. while the unfortunate one, force themselves to stay together even after knowing the other party having an affair.  

It would be easier when both have similar passion like hobbies, lifestyle, background and culture. Otherwise, it would be a great challenge but we have heard a lot of great successful stories of couples living till old age from different religion and races. One can never imagine how much love and compromise that they need to go through to make it work. I empathy those who are married by matchmaking and had suffered. While I also honour the fact that people I know grow to be in love till the end. Understanding, compromise and forgiveness comes along with your initial passionate love to keep it going and staying together. 

May all relations comes out fruitful. May those that yet to have a relationship, find a great someone tomorrow.