Yesterday was Valentine's Day, it was also Chinese Lunar 7th day of the New Year. In the Chinese saying it is the birth of mankind, so the Chinese celebrate this day and some treat it as Chinese Valentine's day where you celebrate the birth of yourself and your loved ones.
Valentine's day has been fully commercialize in today's world. Couples are expected to celebrate widely their love of one another, while some take this opportunity to propose for marriage. However, Valentine's day(VD) is only a day in 365 days of the year. If you love one another, everyday would be a VD. Would you want everyday to be full of pain and hurt and have a great wonderful day on VD with the person you loved? I believe NO. Yet some people would expect the lavishing gifts, candlelight meals, flowers and maybe music for this so called special day. For me, I would rather have my loved one, loved me whenever he can, give me a treat or two when we are having a celebration. Not show me how he love me because it is VD.
If he love me, he would show me daily, without the need of any gifts. He is able to love me as I am, and still love me on things that he dont like about me. I guess, that is enough to me. So if you dont receive anything on VD, it's alright. Think about it, does it mean he love you less? Does he not show his love for you on any other days? try to self check, out of 365 days, how many days does he show his love for you. That my friend is what you should measure.
Enjoy every moment, every day with the one you love. And hope they love you too, not hurting you.
Valentine's day has been fully commercialize in today's world. Couples are expected to celebrate widely their love of one another, while some take this opportunity to propose for marriage. However, Valentine's day(VD) is only a day in 365 days of the year. If you love one another, everyday would be a VD. Would you want everyday to be full of pain and hurt and have a great wonderful day on VD with the person you loved? I believe NO. Yet some people would expect the lavishing gifts, candlelight meals, flowers and maybe music for this so called special day. For me, I would rather have my loved one, loved me whenever he can, give me a treat or two when we are having a celebration. Not show me how he love me because it is VD.
If he love me, he would show me daily, without the need of any gifts. He is able to love me as I am, and still love me on things that he dont like about me. I guess, that is enough to me. So if you dont receive anything on VD, it's alright. Think about it, does it mean he love you less? Does he not show his love for you on any other days? try to self check, out of 365 days, how many days does he show his love for you. That my friend is what you should measure.
Enjoy every moment, every day with the one you love. And hope they love you too, not hurting you.
