Today, achievement is managed to get him to tell me a question I’ve asked and cooling him down in a short period of time.
This morning when I send my son to school, the teacher after
checking his hands and mouth, try to stop him from taking the torchlight away.
He usual would take it and off the torchlight and put it on the table as a
routine.
My son got angry, and end up he throw the torchlight across
the hallway, luckily no one was hurt. I have to get him to pick up and put on
the table and walk to his class. When he enter the class, he went to pick up a
pencil case and step hardly on it. I try to stop him, he pick it up a few times
wanting to throw it across the hallway again. I managed to stop him, pull him
near me, and ask him who’s pencil case is this. After asking a few times, he mumbled
“Cheng Hao, ……pencil case”
After, I had to calm him down and say don’t be angry
and it is not nice to throw things and especially not your things. Gave him lots of hugs until finally cool down and back to
himself and send me out the gate(routine). My son just dislike this classmate of his, as
this classmate love to disturb him, like pushing him from the back when he is
doing something, kick him during toy snatching and take a toy/ book when he was not watching. Yes, I saw it with my own eyes that this classmate did them to him. So I do
understand why my son choose this classmate pencil case and did what he did when he got angry, but then, this classmate did nothing of that sort today which is the problem.
More help and work need to be done for my son not to do that and i hope he get it and understand soon. He is already six, it would be hard to make friends if he dont learn to social fast. While me, as a Mother would always be worried on his development progress and his social interaction with people is my major concern.
My son was diagnose with Mild ASD when he was 3 years old, however, I know of his special needs since he was 2. Yes, he have some challenges but I believe he will learn to behave in public when he grow older. He is given ABA therapy to cope with his tantrums which had affected daily lifestyle and since has help a lot. Now he is six and would required speech therapy as he is not willing to express his emotion freely and interaction via communication with people is affecting in his school environment.
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